20 thoughts on “Why Are Black Women Single?

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Black women are in denial. There's a whole host of reasons why they are all single but here are just a few.

    1. Their attitude – blk women want to be manly, loud and aggressive and MOST men regardless of race find that unattractive. The hyper argumentative persona isn't a desirable trait.

    2. Their body / health – black women are the fattest women / people in America. Statistics say that damn near 80% of black women are overweight  – obese. While black men in general aren't fat. In fact black men are viewed as the most athletic in society.

    3. Their (lack of) standards – while 70% of black women are single, most of them still have kids. Aka they're baby mamas. Most men find that to be an EXTREMELY undesirable piece of baggage. Why would a man want to be financially burdened with taking care of someone else's kids? Black women lead the nation with being single mothers. That's on them. Naturally this leads to these women having "gold digger" traits. They want a man to "take care of them" and their kids.

    4. Successful black men have more options – black men who are middle class are likely surrounded by women of other races who are more desirable than black women due to the items listed above.

    5. Their appearance – most black women have no idea how to look presentable. Whether it's insane makeup, ridiculous weaves with unnatural colors, slutty clothes etc. There is a very specific type of man who's attracted to that look / style. Beyond that it isn't appealing to the majority of society. In fact they find it disgusting and repulsive.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    The solution is simple, 4 easy steps for BW:

    1. Check the snotty attitude
    2. Lower your standars
    3. Stop wearing so much weave
    4. Quit trying to act masculine

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    I don't understand why yall choose to label black men and women bad because of a few bad apples. obviously there are good black women and men around. The problem is some of yall are too focused on being single, yall rush relationships with the wrong people. Then have the nerve to label a whole race of men and women as bad because of your bad experiences. Maybe its not them, maybe its the type of men and women you all are attracted to… your types. (Talking to the people in the comments)

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Sister Shahrazad Ali already gave you the answer to this question damn near 30 years ago! And 30 years from now black women will be asking the same damn question.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    If you want to build families, you must do it with the consent of the man.
    You must acknowledge and respect the reproductive rights of men no less than you acknowledge and respect the reproductive rights of women. You cannot proclaim you want to build families then force men into fatherhood, then throw them in prison for the inability to pay child support. Men must have, just as women have, to opt out of parenthood when they have not previously agreed to father a child. (Marriage would be considered at least the explicit agreement to father.)

    It's called Legal Paternal Surrender, and it would keep 50,000 black men each year out of prison for the simple inability due to poverty, to pay support.

    Now think about how angry just the mention of reproductive rights for men has made you. That obliges you to ask why you don't believe men should have the same rights as women in this area.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Only a simp would actually listen to that unbeweavable hen. Dr. Boyce you are better than this. I hear you talk about that Black woman that left you with your daughter for another (probably lesser guy) and that other Black woman that refused to marry you over some bullshit pagan Religion. You know better than most because you have been burned TWICE by these trifling whores. Black women only love and value men for what they can do for them, PERIOD. Also, thank Feminism, Government assistance and White Supremacy's continued push for Black Male Abatement for the masculinized disposition and nasty ass attitude you will surely get from MOST black women to go along with the manipulation that is just in their nature. Dr. Boyce, stop pandering to black women; they will still love you and spend that money with you.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    There's levels to this shit:
    Tier 1 – Premium: No kids, well-off, educated
    Tier 2 – Titanium: No kids, well-off, not educated
    Tier 3 -Diamond: No kids, not well-off, educated
    Tier 4 – Gold: Has kids (but grown or out of the house), well-off, educated
    Tier 5 – Silver: Has kids (but young or in the home), well-off, educated
    Tier 6 – Bronze: Has kids (young or in the home), not well-off, educated
    Tier 7 – Dusty: Has kids (young or in the home), not well-off, not educated
    Good looks can bump you half a tier. Bad looks or bad attitude bumps you down a tier. Rachet or hood mentality will get you knocked down 2 tiers.

    Y'all keep saying BM and BW as if we all live the same life experiences and are all in the same situation. You have to sort out the type of people that you're talking about first.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    You guys don't have a clue….. speak on the solution please! What the hell are you talking about…

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Excuses, excuses excuses.. you black women know why you're all single. Fix you stinking attitudes and stop thinking everything has to go your way.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Well black women only have themselves to blame. Black men have offered black women solutions for a long time: Drop the weaves and stop the overealiance on synthetic stuff, go natural, lose the attitudes, stop with the oversexualization and provactiveness, lose the weight and keep yourself up, drop the materialistic and goldigging ways, stop having babies out of wedlock and by multiple men, lose the love for thugs, stop trying to challenge a man or run a man's house, stop with the on going ratchet and unladylike behavior, etc but they didn't listen and now it's coming back to bite them in the rear. Other races are seeing what black men have been dealing with as well as seeing how the media and black women portray themselves and are saying no. They can continue to stay adamant about wearing their weaves and wigs, saying men can't handle a strong black wonan, keep dressing provactive and oversexualing themselves on social networking sites, keep getting tattoos, brag about their degrees, keep trying to challenge a man, stay with the attitude, blame black men and society for their problems, etc but the truth is they will remain the least desired, least wanted, least attractive, and least married women on the planet. It's their fault. Either change or get left behind!

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Black women need to stop listening to Beyoncé because while she's singing about, "all the single ladies throw your hands in the air", she's snuggled up under her man.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Oh, the only solution is swirling. Single black women need to walk over to that fence and jump.

    Black men have too many complaints about us that other men don't have. Why? Because black men cause most of the things that they complain about.

    Just stop dating them.

    Works for me.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Why are people always throwing black women under the bus? There are just as many single black men. Where are those videos?

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Black peoples you are looking at the small picture,All race have problems none is better than the other a lot of people are married and wish they are single. Just because a lot of women of other races chose to do abortions and most black women Did not does not make them better, Without Jesus in your life ,everything is Vanity

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    For those that call BLACK women gold diggers (cuz we know majority of Black males dont call White females golddiggers) I have some questions:

    Also Could anyone define the Black man's role to his relationship and community?

    Where are all these rich and wealthy Black women off the Black man's back?

    Please provide me the wealth ratio of the Black women to White women?

    Thank you,

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Okay, these woman married talk conversations are awesome. I love yall are all coming together and dropping that knowledge ladies.

  • January 13, 2017 at 7:47 am
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    Black women just need to expand their dating options to include ALL men, not just black men. I don't understand how women of other races are free to date and marry who they want, but black women are limited to black men.

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