21 thoughts on “Jill Scott’s divorce highlights the divide between men and women in our community

  • June 19, 2018 at 4:33 pm
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    How does one couple divorcing reflect on a whole race? People of all races get divorced all the time. This is bullshit.

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    I'm a female and I simply don't like any kind of drama, control or nagging. My last partner, he would nag me all the time. Men nag as well. I'm a easy going free spirit.

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    I loved this discussion. I was able to agree and disagree but mainly it gave me food for thought. I would love to have dinner with you and other rational thinkers like you

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    True. There are ALWAYS signs…we can ignore them but there are ALWAYS signs…

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    40:41 – "The problem is that Love and War should not be in the same room together." ~ Dr. Boyce Watkins. Yes!!!! There are Black women who love and appreciate brothers like you. I know, cause I'm one of them. Blessings, King.

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    Plain and simple black men are not gonna do right. Don't know how. Does not posess the ability and no one is going to put up with it

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    Worthless attention = worthless currency. Dr. Boyce? You went IN on this video! Great job. Sending love from Toronto, Canada

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    And you wonder why the black community is always a matriarchy where the black male leadership gets sabotaged every time. I feel for him because he had to deal with a so called marriage to a woman who acted like a ghetto bitch with an attitude

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    The Mack Within- Tarik Nasheed. Great book for ALL MEN/BOYS TO READ!!!!

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    WELL DONE.WELL SAID. TRUTH NEEDED TO TOLD.TRUTH COULD HAVE BEEN SOLD.TRUTH CRIES ALOUD AND SPARES NOT.BLESS UP.

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    Dr. Boyce! haha. I loved this one. Funny as hell! A good conversation, nonetheless. (I'm speaking about the conversation AFTER the details about Jill Scott. A very unfortunate situation. I wish her the best recovery without much public humiliation)

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    Uuugggh. You are ranting on and on about women and he issues. The issues do deserve light. However when a man complains on and on about women it is feminine AF. King the up good Doc and teach. Don’t complain. Also, talk about how men can show up and be better. That is Healing.

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    it's really sad how marriage and matrimony has become a total circus.

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    it's really sad how marriage and matrimony has become a total circus.

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    Thanks, I really enjoyed that. I grew up with my two sisters, two brothers along with my mum and dad. My dad had the final say on everything. My mum would always run things by my dad and they never overide one another once a decision was made. I respect their parenting very much. My still is the master of his home although just a bit more cuddly. My dad is a wonderful father and an even more so wonderful grandparent! However I do feel he could be better husband to my mum. That being said, as an older lady my man attraction to men has been the father figure in a man and how they treat those they like and those they do not like. I am 37, no kids and in real love. My main attraction to him is his intellect, work ethic and dedication to his family and the father figure potential within him. I respect him dearly and it is the first time in my life i have felt comfortable in letting a man just be the man and dropping the strong independent woman shenanigans. For me part of being an independent woman is allowing yourself to be vunerable especially to your partner. I ask my King what he thinks when I have to make certain decisions because his opinion matters to me. I know I can support myself on my own I've been doing it for years but I have a feeling of greatness that we are together wanting better for us. Alot of what you discuss here makes so much sense to me. As I grew up along side males I've know for a long time that men and women are totally different. My brothers give me the male perspective and I in term have given them a perspective on certain things that have happened in our lives with current or past partners. You speak truth man, the truth hurts but at the same time the truth sets you free! Thanks once again.

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    Relationships are about relationships…. nothing else is a factor…not finances either…. Two people with money in a bad relationship are in a bad relationship which equals unhappiness… if you're not happy it's not worth it… Happy is happy.

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